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Tamara Cnossen's avatar

Thanks for writing this beautiful piece Ariane!

Jordyn Sharfe's avatar

loved this read so much

Ariane Anusbigian's avatar

Appreciate you reading, Jordyn! xx

Claudia Chirilescu's avatar

Thank you so much!

Tina Boetto's avatar

Thank you for sharing this so openly Ariane and for this series Jayme ❤️

Ariane Anusbigian's avatar

Aww thanks so much for reading, Tina! x

Fanny Adams's avatar

Beautifully written Ariane.

Elin Strong's avatar

Ugh, I adore Ariane. This was such a beautiful (and relatable...south beach diet, omg) essay, and I absolutely loved the closing paragraph. Chills.

Ariane Anusbigian's avatar

As you would say... MWAH!! I adore you!

Traci Landy's avatar

Loved this entire post. Bravo, ladies.

Tricia Torley's avatar

Thank you for this collab, Jayme and Ariane. So much of it resonated -- the Britney abs (and every teen magazine selling me an ab routine), the infertility distrust, the peace that comes with letting a lot of that go. Raising a daughter has made me examine how I treat and talk about my body each day. She's starting ballet this fall after begging for a year, and I'd be lying if I said I wasn't a bit nervous about all that comes with that. I'm hoping that we can figure it out together.

Ariane Anusbigian's avatar

1000p Tricia! I didn't get into the whole raising a daughter of it all, but it's SO on my mind. We can do this! Thank you for reading and sharing, as always. xo

Jayme Cyk's avatar

Thank you so much for reading and sharing your experience, too. x

Stephanie Johnson's avatar

So vulnerable and well said! Hoping I find this type of peace postpartum!

Ariane Anusbigian's avatar

Tysm Stephanie!! xo

Courtney Falsey's avatar

This was beautiful Ariane ❤️ I loved every word (and could relate to so much). Jayme - another knockout interview!

Ariane Anusbigian's avatar

Thank you love!!

Jayme Cyk's avatar

It was all Ariane! 🤍

Alexandra Sperrazza's avatar

Thank you for sharing, Ariane. This resonates deeply. I wish I could get back all the moments I obsessed...all of the food noise.

Ariane Anusbigian's avatar

I'm so glad we're further along in our journey now! xo

Natalia Herrera's avatar

Jayme, thank you for giving space to women to write beautiful essays like this! Ariane, beautiful words and essay. ❤️

Ariane Anusbigian's avatar

Appreciate you, Natalia!

Jayme Cyk's avatar

Thank you for reading!

Kristin Ellen Hockman's avatar

Ariane ❤️‍🩹 I feel this one deeply. The distrust in our own bodies that comes with infertility is something I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy - it’s such a complicated feeling when we feel like our bodies can’t do the one thing that they’re supposed to do by nature. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and feelings. Love you!

Ariane Anusbigian's avatar

Love you, Kristin! I’m sorry you get it too, but I’m grateful I’m not alone! xx

Allison's avatar
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Oof, this gave me goosebumps. Such a beautiful, vulnerable, honest reflection. I felt every word of it. Even though I’m in a different phase right now, it left me feeling hopeful – and a little less frustrated at my own body.

Thank you Jayme, for creating such a safe space for this level of vulnerability and thank you Ariane, for sharing your story. One of the many reasons this community on Substack 🤍The more we connect on this level, the more we realize just how much we all have in common🥹

Jayme Cyk's avatar

OMG agreed! Thank you for always reading and engaging. You’re the best.

Allison's avatar

Always 🤍

Ariane Anusbigian's avatar

Came to say the same!!! You’re the BEST Allison. So appreciate you taking the time 🫶

Maura Brannigan's avatar

Ariane...how'd you get so wise? I love you so much. And JAYME: This series is killing it — keep it comin'! xx

Ariane Anusbigian's avatar

You know ily 🫶