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Maxwell Losgar's avatar

YOU DID IT! You wrote about your sex life and survived!! Sending this to your mom now.

Jayme Cyk's avatar

My mom definitely read it because she reads everything and then comments that it was very interesting lol.

Sara H's avatar

I'm a firm believer in scheduling! if it's in the calendar, it's happening!

Lola's avatar

Wow, this is such a brave and honest reflection. I love how you lay out your journey – it’s so raw and real. It’s truly empowering to see someone speak openly about something so private. Thank you for sharing, this was really special.

Jayme Cyk's avatar

Thank you, thank you! xx

Katelyn Cnossen's avatar

Same over here, I can relate so much to this post 💙 thank you for putting it into the universe

Jayme Cyk's avatar

Thank you for reading!

Katelyn Cnossen's avatar

P.s I love your bangs!!

Jayme Cyk's avatar

Thank you!

Elin Strong's avatar

Thank you for getting vulnerable about S-E-X on the internet, that can't be easy! (I've started a draft on my sex drive post-pregnancy that may never see the light of day.) S0o0o glad you got over the whole not deserving pleasure thing because +1 to having a trusty vibrator. And thank you so much for your kind words!!! Substack hadn't notified me so it was a really sweet surprise to see that shout out as I was reading through. Appreciate you. 💚

Jayme Cyk's avatar

Thank you! It's so weird to write about, but it's been a long-time struggle and just felt like the right time. And of course, re: your latest. It resonated so much, but was also sooo fun to read!

Celia Chen's avatar

Thanks for speaking about this! I wrote a post about my pleasure seeking year and it was a test to see if my family actually read my substack. ;)

Jayme Cyk's avatar

lol I have no doubt my mom read it because she reads everything and it's annoying.

Celia Chen's avatar

I’m in my give zero f*cks era and it’s amazing.

Patrick Kelly's avatar

Thank you for sharing, so important to talk about these things. Unrelated, your sweater is so cute! And club ZIIP forever. <3

Jayme Cyk's avatar

The sweater is Bode and it's my favorite, thank you. And ZIIP will always be my number one nanocurrent/microcurrent tool. No one beats it.

Jayme Cyk's avatar

Thank you! That means the world. x

Ariane Anusbigian's avatar

This is such an important topic!!! And I’ve experienced it myself. Thank you for being brave enough to write about it Jayme!! Read it top to bottom ❤️